
This memory goes back to my childhood
– bear with me as it will take a while to
set the scene. I was born, and lived my
pre-teen years, in England. This was during
the 1930’s and 40’s. England was a
very different place then. There was still much of the
class system in evidence and of course there was The
War. I lived on the Isle of Wight. A rather bucolic
locale of the summer resort genre. My parents had
ambitions for me which involved a better education
and a more refined accent than I was likely to acquire
where we were then living, so decided that I should
be sent to a boarding school near the great metropolis
of London. Accordingly, one evening when I was ten
years old, my father came into my bedroom and
asked me to sing. To sing! What on earth was this
about? No one sang in our house. He cajoled, pleaded
and threatened. All to no avail. I withdrew into tears.
I was then informed that I was to be taken to London
the next day and there would be a man there who
would expect me to sing and I had damn well better
do it. It was to be an audition for a choir school – a
place where fees were discounted if the boy (and it
was only boys) sang in the choir of one of the wealthy
London churches. As it turned out I was not required
to sing at the audition. With the wisdom of age, I suspect
that as long as my parent could come up with the
required fee I was guaranteed a place.
The trip from home to the school had entailed a
journey by train from our home in Cowes to Ryde.
There we changed from the train to a tram car to take
us to the end of a pier where we transferred to the
boat to Southampton. Then we changed to another
train to take us to Waterloo station in London. Finally
came a change to a local train to the village of Bexley
where the school was located. My mother accompanied
me for the audition. I was accepted and began to
undertake the journey, from home to school and back,
several times each year. I travelled alone. No parent,
no guardian, no adult. And I did so, making all the
connections and changes, without once getting lost,
and to the best of my memory without asking for
directions. In those shy days, a child knew his place
and rarely initiated contact with an adult for any reason.
A different age. A different world.
The only thing I ever recall from any of those trips
over the course of three years – and here is the memory
– occurred in the spring, probably of 1947. I was looking
out of the train window as we travelled through Kent
and I saw fields of wild daffodils. I thought I had never
seen anything so beautiful in my life. |



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